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sometimes beginings aint so simple

Something we did during career education block the other day. It s like a survey...The result is miraculously accurate to a lllllaaaaaaarrrrrgggge extent. Cool.CHECKITOUT BABEHH.

 

Life as an ENFP
(Extravert, Intuitive, Feeler, Perceiver)         

People of this type tend to be: enthusiastic, talkative, and outgoing; clever, curious, and playful; deeply caring, sensitive, and gentle; highly innovative, creative, optimistic, and unique; adaptable and resourceful but sometimes disorganized.(THIS IS FKING TRUE OMG)
The most important thing to ENFPs is freedom to see possibilities, make connections, and be with a variety of people.

Here are just a few popular and often satisfying careers for people whose Personality Type is ENFP.

  • Advertising account executive
  • Career / outplacement counselor
  • Management consultant
  • Developer of educational software
  • Actor
  • Journalist / magazine reporter
  • Graphics designer
  • Art director
  • Copy writer
  • Corporate team trainer
  • Residential housing director
  • Psychologist
  • Inventor
  • Human resources profession
  • Child welfare counselor

 

How to Love an ENFP

  • Appreciate my creativity, curiosity, and uniqueness.
  • Tell me how much I mean to you and be patient with my need to process how I feel privately before sharing it with you.
  • Re-establish harmony quickly.
  • Support my need to try new experiences and maintain my many friendships. (so true!)
  • Try not force decisions too quickly, or bug me about being messy.  (Whoever agrees raise your hand)
  • Above all - encourage me to keep growing, changing, and experimenting with life.

 

Alright so now you guys have all learnt how to love me :D
Now I m gonna bury myself in my homeworks so that s all for today.
 
PS: eventually.....will there be a chance? though i dont feel much about it :X   haiz. or i ll just wait longer? before making another attempt? 

要有空间。

Omg. I think zhuxinyue is as stupid as vivien cos they both like to act stupid while talking to me...

GOSH.

No one loves you more than I do. says:
do you know photoshop?
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht® [@RI.boarding.school] says:
=.=
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht® [@RI.boarding.school] says:
donnoe donnoe
No one loves you more than I do. says:
as in, are you PRO at it?
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht® [@RI.boarding.school] says:
sell photo one ar
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht® [@RI.boarding.school] says:
arh
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht® [@RI.boarding.school] says:
i good at sellin photos
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht® [@RI.boarding.school] says:
u wanna buy
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht® [@RI.boarding.school] says:
damn cheap
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht® [@RI.boarding.school] says:
damn nice oso
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht® [@RI.boarding.school] says:
whose photo u wan
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht® [@RI.boarding.school] says:
anyway...
No one loves you more than I do. says:
 ..
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht® [@RI.boarding.school] says:
the comp here too lag to sell photo
No one loves you more than I do. says:
cool
No one loves you more than I do. says:
how s the price
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht® [@RI.boarding.school] says:
1cent
No one loves you more than I do. says:
cool
No one loves you more than I do. says:
got discount or not
No one loves you more than I do. says:
WTF WHY AM I ALWAYS HAVING THIS KIND OF STUPID CONVO WITH YOU

 
 
 
And I m currently working on the founder's day thing...ok fine actually it s yuxin who s working on it...and I chip in constructive comments every now and then.
So irresponsible right?
Nvm. I better start on my 公函...陈老师looks like those who ll give bookings for late work.
what else.
Oh the chem worksheet and those math assignments.
ASSIGNMENT 1 IS DUE ON FRIDAY WTF.
 
 
进入mugger mood 吧, hardcore mugging才是王道.
daniel, 你要多读我的博客你的华语才能进步(哈哈。。招揽读者) 如果你能看得懂我的博客,你看阅读理解也应该没问题了
你只要每天都努力,黄天不负有心人,你的华语一定能拿4.0。
天啊我为什么说话这么别扭=.="
算了。。。
 
Oh man.yuxin...............why is your design so different from what i have in mind T_T
OH NO....NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...
宇心大侠。。全靠你了。。。不要screw up T_T
 
 
 
 
 

MOOD SWING. 慎入=.="如有反胃的症状乃正常反应。。

Hello I m so sorry.
I m experiencing this major mood swing now, not pms but I just feel ultra ultra down :(
So pardon me, I m gonna be really emo.
Blame it on the black background, it changed me :(
 
Maybe I m just expecting too much from others, and keep feeling sorry for myself..Asking nonsensical questions like" Is this worth it?"
How about let's put it in another way.
 
从小自尊心就蛮强的吧,从小时候跟比我大的男孩子打架,到后来被小学里无聊的败类们辱骂,都没有把懦弱的一面表现出来,现在想想我当时装个屁英勇啊
打碎牙齿往肚里吞的感受我从小就经历,士可杀不可辱的彪悍思想一直以来都起着作用呢
经历稍微多了以后发现其实很多时候不用硬碰硬的,玩儿阴的比在明处要安全得多
但是这个幼稚的想法在不到几个月就破灭,玩儿阴的你根本玩儿不过人家。一山还有一山高。。更何况我连山都不是,充其量一个小屁孩儿拿着铲子弄得一个土堆
 
天啊我在说什么啊,我的中心思想在哪里啊?
 
我经得住打击,但是打击的痕迹会留在我心里很久。
一个人的时候喜欢胡思乱想,于是这些令我难过的事情就有如滔滔江水一般向我袭来。。。
什么时候才能把一切看得看呢
我想有个宽大的胸怀,接受任何事情都淡淡的一笑,然后四两拨千斤的解决问题~ (想想都帅呆了)
可是看看我现在的样子。。
梦想跟现实的差距啊=.="
我为什么这么在乎别人对我的看法?我为什么对自己看得这么重呢~~~~~~~~~~
果然还是个小孩子=.="
 
 
导致现在有个习惯。。说话不喜欢说得太死,因为别人都是未知的,不指望别人给我台阶下。。所以自己步步为营,为了留后路=.="能潇洒的脱身=.="
哈哈太幼稚了我果然有强迫症。
好了心情仍然很郁闷,我睡觉去了。
 
谁能比你更爱我呢~ 至少你对我的爱是在我的控制之内的~ 永远忠于我~永远爱我~
太幸福了。
就算什么都没有我还有你呢。。。HOHO. yelin ah yelin ,who loves you more than I do?
乐观主义者就应该这么想问题!
 
OH YEAH~
 
 
 
 
 

An elaborate dream

Esip test went well today, not too well but a lot better than what I ve expected.
Came across several Nanyang AEP works and I was totally impressed...AEP, not rgs kind of sap.
Had lunch at J8 with tianyuan before meeting yuxin daniel and yifan..Tianyuan couldnt find a jacket in j8 and didnt find it in plaza sing either.
So sian! Why do I always feel so sian recounting today's events huh? COS IT S JUST TOO MONOTONOUS. 
I need something different in my no-life kind of life. Maybe I should start mugging and truly become a nolifer rather than getting stucked in between, not saying that all muggers have no life but to me, mugging 24/7 just sound suicidal. I was never a goodgoodstuddy daydayup kind of person ever since I first started school, handing in homework on time was never a habit of mine. Neither do I suck up to teachers.But now I m not given any other choice, oh maybe there is, but who the hell would be stupid enough to lose her precious place in rgs which everyone else is craving for. Maybe to some people I m already close to perfect, a)I m in rgs b)I m not fugly c)I m in basketball d) I can draw c)my family background isnt so bad. No one knows what s behind this sweet smelling thick layer of smoke screen *raise eyebrows* What's on the surface is far from the truth! I m a !_@#*^@#&$%!^@$!)$&*&^ and I !)(@&#*&!%#&!$@^%$ in conclusion I m not what you think. Or maybe I am, shant make things too confined. So far, I know myself the best, so dont argue with me on this kind of matter alright.
 
尘埃落定,game over.
 
I realise lotsa fake-emo chinese writers like to use the phrase 尘埃落定. They have so many things to do with the dust I wont get what they are trying to do..Does it sound very decadent or what. It sounds damn cheest when people use it over and over again man. ok for example, "时光的痕迹慢慢略去,尘埃里是你的青春和你年轻的脸".........And everything is along this line, after 郭敬明became uber famous. 这些小孩子是不是没有是非观念啊...  I admit the fact that I ve liked his books, but as time go by he s still doing the same old thing, writing in that same old style using the same old shitty kinda of storyline. Cmon man, how can one place him with 韩寒?or even 王朔?Just like comparing a prawn and a helicopter...Where's your logic.
 
Anyway. Ive written alot and cos many people reflect to me that they have a hard time reading from my red background, I ve decided to change it.
Though I still believe if one is really interested in the content, he or she will continue reading no matter what, but obviously there s no such people, for that my blog is totally dispensable..
So I shall try my best to keep my readers clicking on my url.
 
Oh I ve camwhored pretty much today while walking home =.="
take a look.
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alright fine my photobucket has reached monthly bandwidth.
another day.
 

hey hey you you I think I like your girlfriend

Sucks. anyway, according to xinyue there s this ri rgs combined art trip to some random museum next thursday and ms lai didnt tell us about it at all! It's either that a) The ri aep teacher is lying or b) ms lai forgot about it.
according to him, again, there s this raffles arts fest coming soon...apparently rgs is supppose to take part in it being part of the raffles family but NOBODY TOLD US ABOUT IT.Isnt it too much? Walao...the ri people are aready mugging sova and we re still at all the handons. No theory tested no art history tested. I m sure we can do well in jc if we carry on like this for another 2 years. WTF.
I oso wanna go for the arts fest~~~ I oso wanna go for art trips~~~~~~ I dont care I ll just go for a sexchange and transfer to ri.
and guess what, ri is so rich that all the aepers they get their materials free of charge...
wtf.
i wanna be a guy man.
 
 
oh and congrats xinyue is now in RI boarding school...
below is a conversation between us.. xinz zorpeht is him lah like obviously.
SO i was asking him how s boarding school:
 
 
 
 
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht 2007® the Artist.the Bballer.the PRO says:
more fun than at home lor

Carousels in the sky, that we shaped with our eyes says:
...
Carousels in the sky, that we shaped with our eyes says:
like you all gay everyday?

[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht 2007® the Artist.the Bballer.the PRO says:
except for the stupid row call at 10 and the 2 hr prep time
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht 2007® the Artist.the Bballer.the PRO says:
lyk duh
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht 2007® the Artist.the Bballer.the PRO says:
nuttin to do
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht 2007® the Artist.the Bballer.the PRO says:
of cos lar
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht 2007® the Artist.the Bballer.the PRO says:
then do wat
Carousels in the sky, that we shaped with our eyes says:
...
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht 2007® the Artist.the Bballer.the PRO says:
but my roommate damn small
Carousels in the sky, that we shaped with our eyes says:
woah
Carousels in the sky, that we shaped with our eyes says:
cool
Carousels in the sky, that we shaped with our eyes says:
compared to YOU huh
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht 2007® the Artist.the Bballer.the PRO says:
urm
[2Gether.32.pro]XiNz☮™ zorpeht 2007® the Artist.the Bballer.the PRO says:
as in vertically


你不是遥不可及的,小周同志

我要当学生通讯员
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我要当学生通讯员
 
 
You get paid and you get to know people from other schools and you get to go to singapore press holding building you get to attend cool workshops you get to errr attend meetings you get to get your work published on newspaper YOU get lotsa COOL STUFF i wanna be TXY~~~~~~~~~~~~
 
When my chinese teacher was advertising for TXY today... i was, totally 热血沸腾ok?
I shant explain why.
MAN!
TXY!
LET ME BE IN MAN HUA!
 
 
Aep is quite cool, the perspective piece is due tmr and i m half way there.
Basketball friendlys against acjc, school team not playing and i m not in school team which means I M PLAYING.
and 8 rounds round the track tmr instead of 6.
which is about 3+km
can lah...
K gdnight and if i really get to be txy i ll help yuxin advertise his converse shoes, this artistic person is painting converse shoes for sale.
ok byebye.
goodnight
i go sleep
 
 

回忆是抓不住的月光 握紧就变黑暗

Alright I now declare my love for my dying bride, it s least close to gross at i thought it would be.
Listen, to their, TO REMAIN TOMBLESS.
It s such a wonderful piece I wanna make a A2 size collage out of it's lyrics! Every drumbeat goes right through your skin into your nerves from your nerves to your heart and there you go, you re gonna get brain washed by their songs and become some emo-gothic-death-metal-diehard fan. Not to mention these songs were from the 90s! 20 years ago and still a cock of the walk right now ! I mean, at least everybody has heard of my dying bride if they pay attention to death metals! I shall not dig into their wikipedia or ,paste their individual photos on my file or sth, instead I m only gonna stick to their music, the thing they most wanted people to take notice of them~
 
 
yeah.fine it was a lousy review I should have even tried to do a review but It s really great go listen to them!
 
 
 
 
I guess we have the same taste in music. Says yelin, looking into the mirror.
 
You know sth? I ve always wanted to write a story based on split personalities, it ll be damn cool.And early last year laoshi once told me that I can just send random writings to her and she might be able to send it to zaobao and get in published! Which means I can get random gaofei for writing random stories! Yea I know I ve never done it before but...my writing skills aint that bad right, though i didnt get into chinese cap, nor am i zao bao tong xun yuan... Eeeeah whatever I concentrate in art and basketball first.
Human anatomy is gonna take ages man, I know I should be practicing it everyday BUT  i seem to waste so much time online and not doing anything constructive that by the time i go offline i get exhausted and fall asleep at 9. It s aready 9 and i feel the bed calling for me.
 
I like Egon schiele, I like Vincent Van gogh, I like BENJAMIN. and not forgetting, HCI girls... How i wish I were )_(&!@*%&#&!$#!%^#@&%^#*&@%#&!$@%#!@
but it s alright since i m doing fine in rgs, since fashion cluster and aep are gonna get really interesting *roll eyes* and school s workload is like, huh, damn light leh. And basketball s like, woah, big penis, very big, out penis, VERY BIG!
HAHAHA isnt it so funny  i cant stop imitating the japs in southpark...so hilarious...and i realise chinpoko in jap means small penis. HAHAHAHA omg. And tianyuan once told me that the average length of jap penis are like, 7cm. not sure if it s before or after erection, it s just SHORT. cmon my middle finger s like 8cm =.="
 
thanks yuxin for editing my "with teeth" photo for me I really owe you a big thanks =.=" (i m just being 客气 dont take ti seriously)
 
mug math, mug physics, mug chem, mug......your X.
 
bye
zzz i always get into this sian mood after talking to certain people man. damn it
 
 
 

Your shameful heaven

Oh MAN. 我快崩溃了。我在校内网找到我哥了。。。亲表哥啊,从小一块儿长大的。。8年没见了好像。
彼此都变样子了。。呵呵大小伙子了都!我还记着他头上点红点的照片呢~
兴奋了,就这样~
 
 
My dying bride的死亡金属越听越好听,对乐队的了解一点都不深但是每个鼓点都让我热血沸腾,明白了其实一首作品它的伴奏也是很重要的,主唱只不过是一部分。
所以又下载了大概他们的四首歌吧,特别推荐 A sea to suffer in. 都是九十年代的但是我现在听也很好听。。死亡金属其实也没有那么恶心。
 
 
今天在天涯的国际观察板块看到了一个蛮喜欢的帖子,楼主的文笔我非常欣赏。。。属于毒药一种味道,用诙谐的语气娓娓道来一切。。。不紧不慢的叙述,不语无伦次不偏激 ,感觉很平稳的一个人,思路也很清晰。
 
 
都说国观是粪缸,我现在开始在里面混看看它能把我薰得多臭。
同时深刻领悟到自己的无知,对中国的了解甚少,在国关根本没什么资格说话。
下个假期就在家里读历史吧。。抓着我爸跟我讲战争吧……抓着我妈跟我讲毛主席吧。。。
虽说我们家不是什么书香门第但起码爸妈都是有文化的人,这点我还真是欣慰,如果生在别人家里可能天天电视里播的都是些不用动脑综艺节目而不是凤凰卫视。。。(现在越来越喜欢看他们的节目了,能见度要高得多,不会什么都被和谐掉,虽然可能被和谐掉的已经很多了)
真好~ 我喜欢我们家~
没什么逻辑是啊? 非常语无伦次的。
我去睡觉了。。眼袋都垂到胸部了。
bye i go sleep.

Back from 5 days of pulau ubin.

Alright I came back from obs yesterday, teached school at about 3, went to collect jersey shorts and took bus home at ard 4.
Yeap I took bus home alone, cos I only had 12 bucks left after treating myself to drinks and ice cream and proper food....My mom wasnt at home that time so no one is able to pay for the taxi.
 
So, Overall OBS was fun, really really fun. I was in the Armstrong watch, not with the rest of my class cos being the last 3 register number, Yunrui and zhangwei and I were being posted to a different watch from our class as one watch can only hold 16 people, and there s 35 people in my class. Armstrong consisted of 3 classes, all the "outcasts" from 311, 305 and 306. Oh yea and Vidya was in my watch too, how cool is that.
 
I kayaked for the first time in my life, and it was 15km straight (under the burning sun) kayaking round the pulau ubin the day after we ve just learnt how to kayak :)
That was on the 3rd day, on the forth day we trekked for about 12km, across the island with backpacks weighing round 10kg.
Tent pitching was tedious when you need to do it every single day in order to have a safe place to sleep. Especially when the ground is hard, we had to use rocks to hammer the tent packs into the hard soil and it takes 10 times the effort to pull it out the next day, and another 10 times the effort to wash away the mud on the packs.
 
For food, I volunteered to be the food IC, although it didnt mean anything but since I m a good chef (hmmmmm)and I was the only few who know how to open the can food with my pocket knife...I did most of the cooking. Zzz it sucked on the 3rd night cos it was already dark when we got to our camp site and everyone was exhausted from kayaking the whole day, few was willing to help. It s really pissifying when you were doing things for others and all they know was to sit there and watch and telling you that "I dont have, I dont know, I cant" And another watch spilled their noodles, so the ground was damn gross..It looked like someone has just puked onto it.
 
Hmmmm That s all i guess, I wanted to blog alot yesterday but msn space was lagging aagin and now I ve fogortten everything that I prepared to share with you..
It s alright.
 
 
Conclusion is :OBS is damn fun, although you dont get to bathe everyday, you dont get to eat proper food, you dont get to know what s going on in the rest of the world. I got millions of sandfly bites and mosquito bites on my little body, and some blisters on my right middle finger (some body poured burning rice on me accidentally on the first day, and the blister burst on the 2nd day when we learnt kayaking,so it got soaked in sea water for damn long). No other major injuries. 
 
Man and I feel like a loser cos I cut myself 2 times with my pocket knife! Cos long long ago I had this pocket knife that was quite blunt, and I got use to handling blunt knifes...and this new knife I brought to obs was damn sharp...Omg I feel so stupid...But luckily these cuts werent deep.
 
Vidya volunteered to be the person in charge of the medical bag, when our instructor handed her the bag she said, "Bring it whenever you go arh, treat it like your husband."  Obviously Vidya would forget about it right, so through this 5 days so it was very common to see Vidya doing her own stuff and suddenly turn to you, open her eyes to the maximum and shrieks "Oh no, HUSBAND"     =.="
 
 
Arh talking about obs makes me feel low.
 
K I m home and safe now, and seasons s starting on monday.
Did I mention that I didnt make it into the team this year? Unlike when I was in sec one, I m not very sure of what went wrong this time.
Surprisingly Chengchia lieting Sharlene and Vidya didnt make team too, but vivien did.
Er...So we ve got only 2 centres, 3 if you include Hannah.
Hmmmm.
First match against zhonghua, guess we ll be missing lessons which I CANT AFFORD TO DO SO.
I ll take damn long to catch up man, not preparing to fail math again this year, I m like, aiming for a 3.2 at least.
If possible I d like to push my gpa to above 3.5, which is possible if I get 4.0 for AEP, history, bio, physics, chem, social studies and chinese.
I know my english cant make it so a 2.8 will do.
Right.
RIGHT.
I m thirsty I want marigold apple aleo vera juice.
 
bye
 
 
 
 

higher higher

Cool cool, I m struggling on the common wealth essay right now and guess what so exciting woohoo I m only at the first paragraph , word count was 112 and guess how long  I ve spent? 1 HOUR. I ll just die during english paper one lah...and dont tell me it s 万事开头难, cos I just finished 开头ing and now i m stucked again :) also on the verge of writing out of point :)  how sweet is that.
 
Thanks sharlene for sending me the OBS packing list, I m gonna start packing very soon or DIE.
 
I m not a very wordy kind of person so how?
1200 words...Ouhh wtf....
 
Obs next week and guess what xinyue aready came back frm obs and he s gonna wear long pants on monday how cool is that? I m gonna borrow his long pants and take pictures with it inorder to show my manliness. 说到manliness, Obs is at pulau ubin , is NS at pulau ubin TOO?
 
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让我也emo一把吧!
 
其实也不是想emo, 只不过真的心里挺不舒服的。
初一时候的loser feelings又回来了。。。总是觉得自己对别人来说无足轻重,就这么消失掉别人也不会太伤心之类的~
完全没有什么安全感,正好你又无心的向我证实了她的感觉对你来说比我的感觉重要~~~啧啧,还是你们都觉得我神经大条应该不会有什么感觉~~
我跟你说~~~虽然我内心没有外表脆弱(意思就是说其实我内心真得很强)~ 但是我也经常会小小崩溃一下感叹一下~ 虽然只是个念头一下就过去了,但多了我也还是很难过的。特别是对我重要的人啊! 你们晓不晓得~
我觉得我应该很知足了因为比我loser得人多的是,可是你们不要都给我个幻觉好像被你们捧在手心然后其实doesnt care a shit about me好吧~~
“谁捧着你啦,你对谁很重要拉,你怎么那么贱呐,别人明明都不管你你自己high个屁啊”
我最喜欢打击自己了 =.="
现在心情很好,我决定写common wealth essay 了。
 bye
 
"i go sleep"
 
 
 

给男人的忠告(好LOL的标题)

我在天涯的一个帖子看到的,原作者 陈灵犀 
写得很专业于是我就摘了一小段……………………
男人该看看的
我特别同意的几点用黑色标了哦
觉得yuxin同学应该认真看看。。。
 
 
 
 四、追MM的注意事项
  
  天涯上不时会看到有人求助怎样追到同事、同学,一群热心人七嘴八舌地提议应该如何表白、约会选什么地方比较好、约会几次后可以试着牵手、想吻人家要不要事先征得同意……我觉得这些不能说不重要,但都是“术”而不是“道”。如果你和她根本不是一国的,就像张飞追林MM,就算看再多的什么“泡妞36计”也不管用啊。在我看来,恋爱成功的关键在于:
  
  1.在了解的基础上确定你对她的感情
  
  不知有多少男人见到心仪女子的第一感觉是如同韦小宝初见阿珂(原文请参照《鹿鼎记》)时那样呢?王子一曲之间就爱上了灰姑娘,可知她美丽可爱之余是否心地纯良、知书达礼?小说童话中没有柴米油盐,一见钟情未必经得起现实生活的考验。每每听到男生说“我第一眼就爱上她了”“我一见她就知道是我想要的那个人”,我在感叹其单纯的同时未免会觉得幼稚。“一见钟情”至多只是好感,是欣赏,距相知相惜、相濡以沫的爱情还差得远呢。(k maybe this doesnt apply to ALL. 有些同学真的还是对自己的直觉很自信啊,是不是阿mr yuxin?)真正成熟的男人在“一见钟情”之后的想法不是“她太美太可爱了,我一定要把她追到手”,而应该是“她的外型正是我喜欢的,不知道其它方面(如人品、性格、学识、价值观)怎么样,我们是不是合得来?”
  
  我始终坚信,真正的男女之爱不是来自血缘和熟悉(如亲子之爱)、崇拜(如追星族的爱)、道德和奉献精神(如对某职业的爱),而一定是建立在相互了解的基础上。由相知而相惜乃至相恋,其间的欣赏、信任、尊重都是以了解为前提的。所以恋爱准备工作的第一步应该是尽可能多的收集对方资料,从聊天中获取各方面信息,以确定自己的眼光是否正确。(我觉得这方面yuxin同学做得很好=.="
  
  2.明确她喜欢什么类型的人
  
  3. 最朴实的追求之道:从朋友做起
  
  有些男生担心一旦确立了普通朋友关系,再“转正”恐怕就难了;有人觉得能看对眼的女生本来就少,不赶快动手没准儿就被别人捷足先登了;还有人性子直,不耐烦揣摩女生的微妙心思,看上就第一时间表白,成就成不成拉倒~~~诚然,无论对方情况如何,火辣辣的示爱绝对能让女生心中窃喜,虚荣心得到极大满足,进而心怀感动。但真正成熟睿智(好好笑)的女人在感动之余不免会轻轻叹息:如此认识不久就动辄“情深似海”“一生一世”的男人,恐怕不会是终生伴侣的优选吧。
  
  而一开始从朋友做起,从日常的聊天中慢慢了解她的全貌,发现她隐藏的优缺点,MS是上文中“确定你对她的感情”的最佳途径。此法的真正妙处在于,你可以以朋友身份不露痕迹地和她谈论一些恋人之间很难开口的问题,诸如“想找什么样儿的对象啊”“其实跟老人一起住也挺好啊,每天有现成儿饭吃,孩子也不用请保姆带”“现在丁克家族挺流行啊,你有没打算过以后不要小孩,一辈子过二人世界啊”之类,尽量不要流露出明显的倾向性,主要听听她的想法。如果你父母坚决要求婚后住在一起,如果你娘亲限你结婚两年内让她抱上孙子,这些都是要在婚前说明而又多少可能有点伤感情的,所以不妨在确定恋爱关系之前试探一下。如果她选择二人世界或不想要孩子,那么你就可以不动声色地偃旗息鼓了。“朋友战略”既能探知对方真实想法,又保全了颜面,双方都不会尴尬,尤其适合办公室恋情。
  
  4.情场中的常见问题:表白被拒了,怎么办?
  
  我的观点是,如果她不是言辞明确地坚拒(如:对不起,我已经有男朋友/喜欢的人了;我真的觉得我们不合适),如果你们之前的相处一直融洽默契,你不妨再试一次,让她看到你的深情和决心。如果她的拒绝是出于矜持或主意未定,你的自信和执著则很有可能打动她。和终身幸福相比,面子有时无足轻重。(cmon yuxin i support you)
  
  但是,可是,可但是,无论你如何用心,如何用情,最终的结局可能依然是:她不爱你。
  
  你深爱的人不爱你,怎么办?
  
  也许,也只能默默转身,留给她一个褪色的背影,也给自己保留下最后的一点体面和自尊。
  
  仅以两句莫文蔚的歌词送给所有曾经的伤心人:
  
  “努力爱一个人,和幸福并无关联。”
  
  “尽管我得到世界,有些幸福,不是我的。”(hope this doesnt happy to yuxin lah...)
 
 

 

harder than it seemed

从心一直凉到脚底~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
从心一直凉到脚底~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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从心一直凉到脚底~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
从心一直凉到脚底~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
从心一直凉到脚底~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
从心一直凉到脚底~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
从心一直凉到脚底~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
从心一直凉到脚底~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
从心一直凉到脚底~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
从心一直凉到脚底~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
从心一直凉到脚底~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
从心一直凉到脚底~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
从心一直凉到脚底~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
 
海水跟火焰当然是海水占上风
我困了想睡觉行不行
 
 
 
 
lessons starting tmr, not sure if there s AEP but according to sakina there is
havent talk to mr ong about the time clash thing, so i m unsure of what to go for after school tmr
Chem, Bio, Chinese that s all for tmr isnt it so kewl.
 
i feel like making some funny noise but no one s gonna listen anyway
 

First day

Alright it s 5.58 am and i m gonna make it short since being late on the first day of school will leave a terrible first impression
Zhou yelin! You re a senior now! Blue name tag!
 
Coolios.
 
Byebye and hmmmmmmm goodluck everyone
 
I had a weird dream just now, i was on msn and my display name was dreams oh dreams then someone came talk to me" Eh stop listening to lily allen get some cool shits here ------(some namewhich i forgot) "    haha...and i remember my reply was "but i bought her album" cant figure out how it s related but still it s a good thing to have dreamt of someone twice in a week! and i could remember in the first dream your body was WARRRRRMMMMM. as in i hugged it. you sick ass.